You don't want to ruin the moment or get her frustrated to where she doesn't come. For you see, many men *think* they know how to please their woman sexually theyve made her orgasm before, noticed how a particular move or series of moves worked, and then repeated them time and time again. Aside from the whole bonding bit, the point of sex is an orgasm, is it not? Yes, the technique of edging can be used on mens orgasms as well. If you go with the flow it might even make it easier to make her cum and to keep her wanting more. Breathe in slowly, focusing on the inhale, breathe out slowly, focusing on the exhale. Pace yourself, my favorite sex toy is my beloved Hitachi magic wand, affectionately named Bruce Willis because of their striking resemblance to one another. Offline, i don't like actual "edging meaning, bringing me to the edge of orgasm and then stopping, but I love when he teases my thighs, my pussy lips, and all around my clit until I'm dripping wet, squirming wildly, and practically begging him to apply. For the greater good of humanity. Withholding and teasing can be tons of fun for both of you when it's part of foreplay or highly connected/intimate/dynamic role-oriented sex. Have you ever tried edging? For me it's probably 10 or 15 minutes until it's ready to be touched again. Or some guys aren't patient enough when giving oral to keep changing until they figure it out - and then when you figure out what works you have to stay with that and keep the rhythm until she comes. I go down for days and only come up for breathing, water and bread to sustain strength. If I am going to come, shouldn't it be epic? Slow and steady wins the amazing orgasm race! Anonymous GeeLove6942 wrote:Every woman is different. If neither of us is going to have an orgasm, can't we just find something on Netflix Instant? If I am right on the cusp of a clitoral orgasm and then something changes it's like the orgasm moment passes and then my clit is too sensitive for another one. Or pending orgasms!) while still being subtle enough that you can do it easily and feel relaxed.